I hate it when people talk over the overture. And then if you shush them, they say "It hasn't even started yet!" Some of us LIKE to listen to the music, thank you!
I also hate it when people use applause breaks to talk, or comment on the show so far. It's distracting, and irks me. Just SHUT UP and talk during intermission, or after the show.
And people who hum or sing along to songs...GAH! I didn't pay to hear YOU sing, ok? Thanks.
Okay so I was at Wicked and there were two teenage boys with really good Orchestra seats wearing hats and football jerseys....I mean if you are going to spend 110 on a ticket at least look NICE!
"when i was little, i wanted to be Ethel Merman"
harvey firestein
I don't buy the dressing up for the theater thing. It's not a matter of disrespect, it's just that for many, theater-going in new york is a part of an entire day, i'm i'm not gonna wear slacks and a button-down to walk around the city for a day. I don't care what someone's wearing, being respectful to what's being put up on-stage involves: Arriving on time. Responding only when appropriate (no commenting on the action or (ick!) singing along) Staying for the entire performance (I have never left a show at intermission, I think it's extremely disheartening to perform after an intermission and see empty seats).
And one last thing that REALLLLY bothers me is people saying what they didn't like about the show before they've left the theater. I, personally, need a couple of minutes to take in the show afterwards and don't need to hear others' moans and groans.
When a director thinks that walking around in a cirlce w/ everyone else is choreography... it's stupid
Fear no more the heat o' the sun,
Nor the furious winter's rages;
Thou thy worldly task hast done,
Home art gone and ta'en thy wages:
Golden lads and girls all must,
As chimney-sweepers, come to dust.
~Cymbeline
ugh, feedback! omg, it drives me INSANE!!!! or when i mic comes on too late or goes off early! ahh, that happenes 3 times during tarzan when i saw it in previews! ahh, it still makes me mad, ha ha.
when actors dont step into the light!!! ahh, its there for a reason!!! ha ha.
when actors put their mics on mute and then forget to take it off mute and wonder why their mic wasnt on for their song!
ha ha, ok im done ranting now but this stuff happens all the time and drives me crazy
Standing ovations these days seem to be obligatory, regardless of the quality of the performances. That really annoys me.
Try this the next time people in back of you keep talking during the performance: "I'm sorry but the people up there on stage are making so much noise that I can hardly hear you."
Underdressed people. I am a firm believer that jeans can be dressed up with nice shoes and shirt, but I hate sandals in the summer and sweats etc.
"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view - until you climb into his skin and walk around in it."
To Kill A Mockingbird
People are seriously worried about a dress code in this day and age? I can understand having issues with flip flops, maybe even shorts but as someone else said, a lot of people in the theater are tourists that walked around the city all day long and didn't make it back to their hotel room to change, I don't think that's a big deal as long as people are behaving properly once they are in the theater. Otherwise I agree with everyone else's problems with latecomers and talkers/sing-alongers being my worst pet peeve.
I'm curious how many people here have seen Mamma Mia. That was the last show I saw (tour) and people in the audience were singing along. I know the ads say people are dancing in the aisles, etc but I felt singing along was truly disrespectful to the performs as well as everyone else in the audience. So I've mentioned this to friends and there seems to be a split with some friends actually saying it's ok and that it's encouraged in this show. So is it ok to sing along at Mamma Mia (not including the encore) or was I right to turn to the man next to me and shut him up?
I hate that a standing ovation has become a standard after any show. Every show I've been to has gotten a standing ovation, and some of them didn't exactly deserve it. I know that the actors work very hard to please the audience, but sometimes, it's just not worthy of a standing ovation. Standing O's have lost their value, in my opinion.
edited to fix a typo!
Updated On: 8/17/06 at 09:29 PM
You were right to shush the person singing along to Mamma Mia. There really is no need to do so, there are usually backing vocals on stage already that make the lyrics hard to understand without any extra distractions.
No one should feel they HAVE to stand up for an ovation. I have remained sitting when others around me were standing. On the converse side, I have also given a standing ovation to a show's ensemble.
I second the latecomer's pet peeve and people who talk during the show, but I also am annoyed by people who do not seem to care that they are in a theater, whether it be by how they dress or how they act, or who try to talk about the show at intermission and are misinformed.
Dean: Can I tell you something?
Lorraine: That depends on what it is.
Dean: I think you're really really pretty.
Lorraine: (after a pause) Ok, you can tell me that.
Oh lordy. When I saw Wicked there were these two teenage girls fully dressed in Galinda and Elphaba regalia behind me who WOULDN'T SHUT UP the entire show. Even the dialogue.
Kiss Me Kate was also bad in that respect
as was Sweeney Todd. This twenty-something guy next to me insisted on singing along to ALL the parts. He even tried to sing all the parts (or at least snippets of each) when they sung together. His Beggar Woman was AWFUL
"Picture "The View," with the wisecracking, sympathetic sweethearts of that ABC television show replaced by a panel of embittered, suffering or enraged Arab women" -the Times review of Black Eyed
late arrivals- when I was at COLOR PURPLE, there were people still arrving during "Push Da Button", like 20 minutes before the 1st act was finished! its very distracting and people singing along during with the songs- this old man was singing "Lullaby of Broadway" and other songs along with the cast during 42ND STREET- if he wasnt elderly, i wouldve smacked him and when people climb over you to get to their seats- i know they cant help it, but it annoys me and a lot of stuff you guys said
i agree on hating the standing ovations on sucky shows. i just don't stand up and i end up being pretty much the only one and it makes me feel like a jerk. but hey- no way i was standing up for brooklyn.
i also hate when people clap in rhythm with a song (during a show and especially at the bows)
i also had a man start screaming and shouting out things like at a football game in the middle of mamma mia last month....i was embarrassed for him
"as was Sweeney Todd. This twenty-something guy next to me insisted on singing along to ALL the parts. He even tried to sing all the parts (or at least snippets of each) when they sung together. His Beggar Woman was AWFUL"
I agree with everyone. Ick. Rude people. I think before people are allowed to see shows, they have to pass their Common Courtesy Test. A shocking (well, okay, not shocking. Disgusting.) amount of people would fail.
I agree with the singing along thing. When I saw Drowsy, this girl sitting next to me would not SHUT-UP! When Sutton came out, she was like, "OMG!!! It's Sutton Foster", and she had to sing along the whole entire time. I don't usually wear jeans to see a show, but I had to one time, because our plane was delayed for 2 hours, so, that was a one time thing only!