Highland Guy said: "Were you in the military?"
No, and in fact I would have been slightly too young at the time, but please understand that I'm judging his blessing of both DADT and DOMA (and admittedly more the latter) as it impacted me as a young gay man who could have used some moral encouragement from the president's choices, but only saw his submission to bigots.
As far as DADT goes, Clinton had promised to open up the military to gay people, full stop. His acceptance of DADT was widely, and rightly, seen as a betrayal at the time, including by my best friend from high school, who served in the Navy starting a couple of years later. (He just retired and I'm sure I'd very much enjoy witnessing a debate between the two of you about it!)
My use of the term "gratuitous" is inspired mostly by his signature on DOMA. He could have vetoed the bill and let Congress override it, which would have sent a powerful message of support for our community. Or he could have simply allowed it to pass into law without his signature, sending a quieter message that would still have been meaningful. But instead he gave it his official endorsement with his signature, and I will forever hate him for that.
Updated On: 6/19/26 at 02:31 PM